We all enjoy a good hug, don’t we?
It appears not. I have a friend who visibly cringes when I go to hug her, whilst my sister has only ever appeared to tolerate my ‘hello’ and ‘goodbye’ cuddles, usually responding with what I can only describe as a very ‘limp hug’.
What this simply shows is that some of us are more tactile than others, but can the same be said of our cats? Is hugging something that both people and cats benefit from?
A quick Google search will show up hundreds of images and videos seemingly showing cats hugging each other and their kittens, people as well as dogs, ducks, rabbits, deer, and even rats!
There are also images showing cats giving hugs to toys, tree branches and other inanimate objects.
But do cats actually give hugs and do they enjoy being given them? In this article we’ll aim to find out.
Do Cats Give Hugs?
Cats don’t have a very sophisticated sense of social relationships. This is because their African Wildcat ancestor was a solitary predator. So, they probably find our social interactions, and the intentions behind them a bit perplexing.
Most people use touch all the time whether it’s a handshake, holding hands, a light touch on the arm, or attempting to walk together with our arms wrapped around each other’s waist – it’s pretty important to us. So, it’s entirely possible that we might just be seeing a behaviour that looks like cats hugging, but as far as they’re concerned is really something else.
Here’s an example of an image I came across during my ‘cute cat hug’ Google search. It shows two kittens, one standing upright on a log with forelimbs open wide, toes spread and looking at the other kitten who appears to be flying towards him. The caption reads ‘Super Hug!’
What’s really going on is that the kitten standing up is preparing himself for what he sees as an attack from a flying kitten. For his part, the flying kitten may well be launching himself at the other, or is preparing to land or, I suspect, has been photoshopped onto the image! Whilst this is might be meant as a joke, it illustrates perfectly a very human perception of cat behaviour.
Other images such as those showing cats appearing to hug a toy can also be misinterpreted. Usually what they’re doing is grabbing the toy with their forelimbs and raking it with their hind limbs in ‘bunny kick’ style. This is something cats instinctively do either when playing, or when they’re involved in physical combat with another cat. They do it to inflict as much damage on their opponent as possible, something you’ll know about if your arm has ever been mistaken for a feline adversary!
Cats might also look like they’re hugging when they’re curled up asleep together. My two cats Billy and Jimmy used to get themselves in some very strange positions to get as close to each other as possible. I’d like to think this was to do with brotherly love, but suspect that, being fine coated Siamese, keeping warm may have played a part! So, what might look like cat cuddles is probably a position that they’ve got themselves into that coincidentally gives the appearance of being hug-like.
It’s clear that us humans are a very sociable species who enjoy physical contact, (especially when it comes to the furry kind). We love our cats and want so much for them to love us back, and to demonstrate it in a way that we understand, but in doing so may just be inadvertently attributing to them, what is actually a very human behavior.
That being said, cats are clearly capable of showing great physical affection, it’s just that our interpretation of a hug might be different to theirs!
Do Cat Mums Hug Their Kittens?
When human mums give birth, they release a hormone called oxytocin which gives them that feeling of intense bonding with their baby. This same hormone is released when cat mums give birth, and it also helps them fall in love with their kittens. It’s wonderful to watch a mother cat caring for her kittens, feeding them, protecting them, providing essential warmth and teaching them how to hunt! But does she hug them?
Several years ago, a video showing a mum cat appearing to hug her kitten went viral. The video had two titles: ‘Cat Mom Hugs Baby Kitten’ or ‘Cat Hugs Baby Kitten Having Nightmare.’
In the video the mum is curled up with her kitten and is in what appears to be a light sleep. One of her limbs happens to be under the kitten and the other is over him. The kitten is deeply asleep, probably dreaming, and his little paws are twitching. This seems to disturb his mum slightly as she stretches and then retracts her limbs which gives the appearance of a big old kitty hug. Whilst mum cat is probably unaware of the concept of hugging in the way that we are, it is likely that she is showing an element of maternal protection and affection to her kitten who’s dreaming.
Will a Cat Hug a Dog?
Throughout history cats and dogs have been portrayed as not being the best of buddies, presumably why the phrase ‘To fight like cat and dog’ was coined! A good example is Butch and Tom, from the Tom and Jerry cartoons. And yes, it’s fair to say that these are two species at opposite ends of the social and behavioural spectrum. Cats like to assess new situations from a distance, whilst dogs will charge right on in.
Let’s say a dog approaches a cat, the cat will perceive it as a threat and probably run away, triggering a playful (or not!) chase response from the dog. It’s clear that neither cat nor dog understand the intentions of the other. So, to get a cat close enough to a dog to hug him might be a bit of a tall order.
There are of course exceptions to this, especially where kittens have been raised with dogs and as a result, aren’t afraid of them. They’ll even use them as comfy warm beds and in doing so may get themselves into a position that looks like a cat and dog hugging, and they may continue to do this throughout their life.
Cats Hugging Humans
Cats aren’t born knowing how to interact with humans, they need to learn how to be pets.
So why do videos keep popping up on social media showi